DIVORCE IS HELL

But It Isn't The End Of Your Story

THE BRUTAL TRUTH:
Divorce feels like death when you're blindsided by it.

You're facing mental anguish, emotional turmoil, and potentially financial catastrophe. Your relationships with your children might be strained or weaponized against you.

This nightmare is real, but so is what comes next.

This Course Goes Live 9-15-25

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THE CYCLE THAT DESTROYS MEN

Most men going through divorce fall into the same destructive patterns

Mental Collapse

Depression, anxiety, and loss of identity beyond being a husband

Emotional Chaos

Anger, bitterness, and resentment that poisons everything

Financial Devastation

Losing half your wealth built over years or decades

Parental Alienation

Watching your children become strangers or turn against you

Complete Isolation

Friends disappear, family takes sides, you're alone in the fight

THERE'S A BETTER WAY FORWARD

Divorce isn't death – it's the end of one chapter and the beginning of your evolution as a man.
But only if you have the right roadmap.

DIVORCE NOT DEATH

The definitive course for men navigating divorce and reclaiming their future

MODULE 1

CLOSING THE CHAPTER

Walk through processing the grief without letting it chain you down. You’ll learn to confront the past, honor what was, and then step forward lighter, clearer, and stronger.

MODULE 2

NEW ROLES, NEW RULES

Learn how to navigate the new roles and rules without losing yourself. You’ll discover how to set boundaries, define your place in the chaos, and lead with clarity instead of confusion.

MODULE 3

MAKING YOURSELF THE PROJECT

Shift the focus from fixing the past to rebuilding yourself. You’ll learn how to sharpen your mind, strengthen your body, and forge the man you were meant to be.

MODULE 4

BUILDING YOUR BAND OF BROTHERS

You are the sum of your five closest friends. You’ll learn how to build a circle of men who push you higher, hold you accountable, and stand with you when life hits hardest.

MODULE 5

DATING AGAIN

Step back into the game with clarity and strength. You’ll learn how to approach dating with purpose, lead with confidence, and attract the right woman without losing yourself in the process.

MODULE 6

PRO TIPS & CHECKLISTS

A complete breakdown of what to secure during and after divorce, covering finances, legal documents, household logistics, health, kids, and more. 

WHAT YOU'LL ACHIEVE

  • Rebuild Strong Father-Child Relationships
    Learn proven strategies to reconnect with your children and become the father they need, even in a broken home situation.
  • Master Co-Parenting Communication
    Navigate difficult conversations with your ex-wife while protecting your children from conflict and maintaining your parental rights.
  • Rebuild Your Financial Foundation
    Recover from financial devastation and create a stronger, more secure financial future than you had before.
  • ​Develop Unshakeable Mental Strength
    Build emotional resilience, process your pain constructively, and emerge with clarity about who you are as a man.
  • ​Create Your New Identity
    Transform from "divorced dad" to "evolved man" – someone who uses this experience as fuel for massive personal growth.
  • ​Build Healthy Future Relationships
    Learn how to date and build relationships from a place of strength rather than desperation or pain.

Learn from Someone Who's Been There

Ryan Michler didn't just survive his divorce, he used it as a catalyst for massive personal growth.
  • Founder of Order of Man & the Iron Council, helping thousands of men worldwide
  • Father of four who rebuilt strong relationships with his children post-divorce
  • Went from the devastating end of an 18-year marriage to a thriving single father and leader

"After three years of going through my own turmoil, I can tell you that you can come out of this a better man. You can improve, you can get better, you can learn what you need to learn."
– Ryan Michler

This Course Goes Live 9-15-25

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